Top Ten Signs He Might Be Mr. Right
I honestly believe that “the one” is largely determined by chemistry, some undefinable quality that you can’t ignore. As Einstein put it, “Gravity is not responsible for people falling in love.” I’m pretty sure what he meant, was you just can’t make sense of it.In the last week I’ve probably been asked 20 times, “How do I know if he’s the one?” I can’t answer for that mystery of Divine intervention, or the X factor of chemistry. However, below are ten things he has to be to be “the one”. You never have to make excuses for him. This man shows up Mr. Wonderful all the time. You don’t ever find yourself saying, “He’s really stressed right now” or, “You just don’t know him the way I do. He really is...
How to Attract Your Soulmate – for Real!
Most singles have “the list” of the qualities they want in their future mate. Before I met my husband, I certainly did. That said, the real magic to “the list” is what you do with it once you’ve completed it. I always encourage people to think about the energy of the person they are looking for. A very common list of qualities might look like this: Spiritually grounded Physically active Financially stable Joyful Honest Good with kids You get the point. Here is the magic – it’s kind of an attraction slight of hand. Once you’ve made that list, stop looking for that person and start looking for that energy. How can you get more spiritual energy in your life? How can you bring in the energy of being active, healthy, and vibrant? Where...
Masterlist for Finding Your Soulmate
Image by kannanokannan via Flickr I hear it all the time. Dating sucks. I must admit, at some point in my life, I was probably guilty of sharing that sentiment. That said, we all instinctively know, that attitude creates a self fulfilling legacy. I always tell people if you are going to date, you have to be willing to date simply for the thrill and joy of dating. You’ve got to be in a serious place of appreciation and honest excitement about the prospect of meeting and dating new people, with no agenda. That specifically means, no agenda of finding and marrying “the one”. That agenda has a way of spinning all manner not-so-soul-mate attracting vibes. That said, one strategy I highly recommend during the dating process for bringing in...
To Give or Not to Give
Simple concept. If you aren’t giving from a surplus, it’s not giving. It’s sacrificing. A sacrifice has a very different energy. It’s tight, constricted, and anxious. It may be done in love, but it’s sacrifice just the same. For women in relationships of any sort, the concepts around gifts vs. sacrifice can be muddy at best. We want to share and freely give with those we love. When we are not full up ourselves, our lovers, our children, our friends who are the objects or our affection, feel the strain of our attention. There is an energy in our “giving” that feels strained and flat. We’ve all been there, tired, depleted, and hungry for something. It’s desperate and lonely. Sometimes driven by that very desperation and...
But Do You Like Him???
Love is blind… We’ve all heard it. Almost all of us have experienced it. That literally blinding hormonal fog of being “in love”. In it’s truest sense, I’m sure that isn’t really love. Whatever it is, it is blinding. Every time I’m talking to a client and they utter the words, “but, I love him…” I know there’s something else underneath that. It’s like, “yeah – this guy is treating me or someone else like dirt, he’s being an ass, but I love him.” Something uncool is going on, but that quasi-pseudo-love feeling is suppose to make all of the other uncool stuff not matter. If love is blind, making things dark and fuzzy, “like” is like a spot light...
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